Watching someone you love struggle with substance abuse disorder can be harrowing. Dealing with the impact of their addiction on their lives and the lives of those around them is heartbreaking and stressful.

The actions of someone struggling with dependence on any drug can have health, financial, and legal consequences. Usually, the person understands they have a problem but are unwilling or unable to act, so you have to step in to help. But where do you start?

While seeking help for a family member might feel like an overwhelming task, with the proper knowledge and support, you can find a reputable addiction rehab facility that will tailor a program to meet their individual needs and set them on the road to long-term recovery.

If someone you love is struggling with a substance abuse disorder,  CuraSouth can help. Our experienced, compassionate team will work with them and you to develop an individualized and effective program to help them recover from addiction and get on the road to long-term recovery. We believe in the benefits of a full curriculum of clinical care, beginning with medical detoxification, transitioning into a higher level of treatment, and concluding with personalized aftercare planning. We even offer professional intervention services if your loved one consistently refuses treatment. Contact us today to learn more about our treatment options in your area.

How to Spot Drug Abuse in a Loved One’s Behavior

Drug abuse can be difficult to detect, but it’s important to keep an eye out for signs in your loved ones. Some key indicators of drug abuse include:

  • Changes in behavior and appearance, such as sudden weight loss or gain, mood swings, and secretive behavior.
  • New paranoia and anxiety.
  • Red or bloodshot eyes, dilated pupils, and slurred speech.
  • Risk-taking, such as driving while impaired.
  • Neglecting responsibilities at home, school, and work.
  • Legal trouble, such as arrests for disorderly conduct or driving under the influence.
  • Disrupted sleep patterns.
  • Unusual smells on breath, body, or clothing.
  • Decreasing concern with personal hygiene.
  • Sudden changes in friends or favorite hangouts.

If you observe any of these or other out-of-character behaviors, it’s essential to approach the situation with empathy and understanding. Encourage them to seek help and offer your support throughout their journey towards recovery. Addiction is a complex disease requiring professional treatment, so don’t hesitate to contact a healthcare provider for guidance.

Conveying the Need for Treatment to a Loved One

  • Telling a loved one they need treatment can be difficult and emotional. It’s common to feel nervous about how they will react and worry that they may push you away.
  • It’s important to approach the situation with sensitivity and compassion. Here are a few things to keep in mind when you are ready to start the conversation.
  • Choose a time when your loved one is calm and relaxed, and approach the conversation gently.
  • Explain why you are concerned and offer your support.
  • Give yourself plenty of time. This isn’t a conversation you can rush.
  • Begin by explaining your concerns and what you have observed. Be specific.
  • Ask open-ended questions.
  • End the conversation by talking about the next steps. Ask instead of tell. For instance, say, “Should we talk to someone?” instead of “You should talk to someone.”

Finding Addiction Treatment and Therapy Options

Finding treatment and rehab options can feel daunting if you don’t know where to start or what to look for. There are many resources available to assist you in your search, including online directories, support groups, and medical professionals. An excellent place to start is with your primary care physician. They can often refer you to local resources.

The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) provides an online treatment locator and a 24-hour hotline (800-662-4357) that provides information in English and Spanish for individuals and families dealing with mental health and/or substance use disorders.

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Selecting the Most Suitable Addiction Treatment Program

It’s vital to consider your loved one’s individual needs and preferences when looking for a treatment program, such as the type of therapy, location, and duration of treatment. Other factors to consider include:

  • Licensing and accreditation.
  • A credentialed multi-disciplinary team.
  • The use of evidence-based practices.
  • Availability of mental health services.
  • Acceptance of your health insurance.
  • Aftercare programming.

Don’t be afraid to ask questions and visit the facility in person before making a decision. Putting in the time and effort to find the right program for your loved one can provide peace of mind and a sense of security.

Overcoming Treatment Obstacles

Two of the biggest obstacles to treatment are resistance and paying for services.

Despite your concerns, your loved one might feel ashamed or frightened or be in denial about their addiction. They may become defensive or angry when you try to initiate a conversation. If so, do not escalate the situation by insisting you are correct and demanding they take action. Stay calm and consider ending the conversation. If you feel the situation is dire, consider enlisting the help of a professional interventionist who is trained in having such discussions.

The thought of paying for treatment can be a scary one. The good news is most reputable facilities take major insurance and offer self-pay and sliding scale options. Look for programs that provide free insurance benefits checks so you have a complete understanding of coverage.

Helping a Loved One Through the Treatment & Recovery Process

When a loved one is going through treatment for any health issue, knowing how to support them best can be challenging. This is especially true when it comes to the emotional and physical toll of addiction treatment and aftercare. 

One of the most important things you can do is be there for them. Listen to their needs, offer encouragement, and help them navigate challenges. Be willing to participate in family therapy so you can work on underlying issues together and can a better understanding of addiction. It’s also important to be patient and understanding as the recovery process is ongoing. Remember to take care of yourself as well so that you are better equipped to support your loved one.

Encouraging Your Loved One & Preventing a Relapse

Recovery is a lifelong process; a relapse can happen anytime without continued work. It is also a gradual process that occurs in three stages: emotional, mental, and physical. You can help your loved one by recognizing the signs of relapse early so they — and you — can take action before they turn back to drugs.

The key is to remain committed to their recovery journey and approach each day with purpose and determination. With empathy, patience, and a proactive mindset, you can offer your loved one the essential support they need to overcome addiction and live a healthy, fulfilling life.

Co-Occurring Disorders That May Be Present

The phrase “co-occurring disorder” refers to the presence of a mental health disorder occurring alongside a substance abuse disorder. These disorders can exacerbate one another, making it all the more essential to address them together. The most common co-occurring conditions include depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, and post-traumatic stress disorder. By simultaneously addressing both substance abuse and mental health disorders, individuals have the greatest chance of achieving long-term recovery.

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Watching a loved one lose themselves to substance abuse disorder is heartbreaking, but addressing the issue with them can be challenging. Taking a loving, non-confrontational approach can help, but sometimes professional assistance is needed to help them understand the seriousness of their condition. No matter the substance, the best way to overcome addiction is with the help of experienced, trusted professionals like those at CuraSouth. We provide comprehensive treatment, including medically-assisted detox, therapy, specialty programs, and reintegration support. Our caring and skilled administrative, medical, and clinical teams will guide you through every step of your recovery process from the first time you call. We provide a complimentary assessment and a free insurance benefits check and help coordinate local travel to our facility. All you have to do is ask; we will take care of the rest. Contact us today.

Travis Atchison

Reviewed for accuracy by:

Travis Atchison
LCSW, MCAP


Travis is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker and Certified Addiction Professional. He has worked in various community-based settings, where he served families and couples, addressed issues related to homelessness and crisis and worked in a substance abuse setting.